Sex Coaching for Couples

As a sex coach, I teach couples and singles how to become more sexually confident, to openly and honestly talk about sex with their partner, and to transform a sexless marriage into one that is full of passion and intimacy.

 

When a couple works with me, they come to realize that sexually fulfilling relationships don’t just happen by accident. They’re built with intention, self-awareness, and practice.

Sex therapy is for couples and individuals from every stage of life, including all sexual challenges, preferences, and orientations.

Here are just a few of the issues that sex therapy can help with.

Do any of these sound familiar to you?

How to talk about sex with your partner

To begin at the beginning

Is this you?

Communication between you and your partner is challenging. It’s easier in a lot of relationships to have sex, than it is to talk about sex. You want to develop new skills to navigate the tension and disagreements that often come out of talking about sex. This unnecessary conflict undermines your trust and keeps you from enjoying sex and intimacy.

You’re anxious to take this first step toward a better sex life, by sharing your desires, and possibly getting them met.

How to save your marriage

Many relationship breakups can be avoided, with the right guidance.

Is this you?

You’re already talking about separating or divorce. It feels like your relationship is now driven by resentment and conflict. You know the price that comes with divorce, emotionally and financially.

You’re hoping sex and intimacy coaching may address the real issues you face, and can maybe lead you to a breakthrough. If the commitment and intention is there, it often is!

Once you start the process of sex therapy, you will come to realize that with the right communication and conflict management tools, the walls start to come down.

Together, you can learn to rebuild trust, listen with love, and save your marriage.

We’re Stuck in a Sexless Marriage

The rut of inertia

Is this you?

You know sex is important to a happy relationship, but you don’t know how to initiate sex. Weeks turn into months and sometimes years. You feel stuck and frustrated.

If you’re the higher desire partner, you may be tired of always initiating, or you may stop initiating sex altogether in order to avoid the ongoing pain of rejection. This may be leaving the lower desire partner confused, wondering what happened.

The blame and shame of a low sex / sexless marriage now undermines your entire relationship. You’re looking for help in getting out of this rut of inertia.

Should your partner be your best friend?

Becoming friends AND lovers?

Is this you?

You and your partner deeply love each other. You’re in for the long run. You make great life partners and awesome parents, but your sex life is a source of tension between you. You often ask, “should my partner be my best friend as well?”

This dilemma can sometimes point to a lack of erotic tension, that comes out of a loss of sexual polarity (regardless of gender). You may find it uncomfortable talking about sex, or sharing your desires. You know you’re stuck in the roommate zone. You want to experience more passion and less pajamas.

Wanting to become more sexually confident

Confidence is the key to becoming a better lover

Is this you?

You suffer from a lack of sexual confidence, experience, and/or knowledge. You’re ready to start learning more about yourself as a lover, as well as exploring new sexual styles and new ways of experiencing sex.

All of these people deserve to live a life of sexual and intimate fulfillment.

We all do!

No matter what kind of sexuality you prefer, what sexual history you’ve lived, or what role sex and intimacy play in your life, you deserve to have your needs heard and met in a loving, consensual, relationship.

When a couple works with me in my programs, they come to realize that:

  • Happy relationships don’t just happen by accident. They’re built with intention, self-awareness, and practice.

  • Our erotic minds are formed from a lifetime of experiences that fuel our pleasure, our fantasies, and our desires.

  • Sexual polarity plays a key role in keeping passion front and center in a relationship.

  • Great communication skills go hand in hand with great sex and intimacy.

  • Human sexuality is love in action, and pleasure is every person’s birthright. There is no right or wrong way to enjoy it.

“If you are open to exploring and understanding more of your psyche and your partner’s, you will receive so much more than instruction in working with Corinne. She is a guide, a mentor and a wise woman whose purpose is to give permission to open up and explore sex and intimacy.”

K.L., Healdsburg

How It Works

When we start our work together, we’ll embark on a journey of exploration and transformation, and after 6 weeks you’ll find yourselves on new shores.

That’s guaranteed!

Wherever you are right now, there’s a path forward.

My work with you is customized to meet the needs of your unique relationship dynamic.

The couples I’ve worked with over the past 12 years made the choice to invest in their happiness by applying the same mindset that any serious student would adopt.

They chose to align themselves with a coach who can guide and support them in realizing their fullest potential, as individuals and as a couple.

My Method

  • Conversations about intimacy and sexuality expose our deepest longings and core values. Getting you comfortable having these conversations with your partner is what I specialize in.

  • Together, we’ll define your goals and what role you want sex to play in your life. We’ll talk about your sexual history and shine some light on the obstacles that may be preventing you from living a fully expressed sexual life.

  • My coaching is pleasure focused, upholding the belief that we are all hardwired for pleasure. We all like to believe we turn to sex for pleasure yet so many couples find themselves pleasure starved. Finding out what brings you pleasure and teaching your lover how to please you is what you’ll learn how to do, shamelessly!

  • As a Hypnotherapist I often use this powerful modality to reinforce new patterns of beliefs and habits that consciously and unconsciously form your relationship to sex and intimacy. Past trauma and wounding can finally find their proper place in your past, rather than haunting you in your present.

  • I coach you with the knowledge that your answers already live inside you. Through our coaching relationship you will discover your own inherent wisdom and sexual empowerment.

  • Many of my clients find a deep sense of relief to have a safe, non-judgmental space in which to share their feelings, fears, hopes and longings concerning sexuality.

“I was a regular reader of Corinne’s Passion Blog for 6 months. I decided to do private coaching to put some of her advice to practice. Corinne is intuitive and wise. I couldn’t write down her insights fast enough. She knew exactly what we needed to crack the code in our sexual life. Communication skills was a big part of it for us.”

P.S., Charlotte, N.C.

“…We appreciated your coaching today. And thank you for all the extra written material you always make available to us. It’s so helpful to have new exercises every week that tie into the topic of our session. I just wish we’d started talking about all this years ago.”

C.W. Florida

Getting Started

Passion Igniter Experience

The coaching process begins with a free 15 min Discovery Call where we talk about your desires and goals and how we might work together in a coaching relationship.

  • This package includes 6 private sessions.
  • These are one-hour sessions and take place on Zoom from the privacy of your home.
  • We meet weekly or every two weeks, depending on your schedule.

Real growth begins between sessions, where life happens.

  • After each session the couple leaves with home-play that helps anchor their learning and deepen their understanding of the lessons.
  • I encourage my clients to keep private personal journals to track their insights and breakthrough moments.

I invite you to correspond with me between our sessions with email check-ins. This can make all the difference in keeping you engaged, and on track to achieving real growth.

My greatest joy is seeing a couple awaken to their fullest intimate potential.

“My partner was desperate for me to understand why I was lacking interest in sex so he bought me a package of sessions with Corinne. Working with Corinne opened my eyes to the part of me I was hiding from my partner, and the world for that matter”.

L&A Sonoma, CA

You don’t know what you don’t know.

Schedule your free 15 minute Discovery Call and let’s talk about love, sex and desire in your life.

“Corinne is extremely knowledgeable, deeply approachable, warm and sensitive. It’s a pleasure to be on the receiving end of her coaching skills. Not only is she all this, but she’s a ton of fun! I left our sessions more empowered, more centered and more rooted in my sexual journey and ready to continue the exploration and connection with my partner, taking our love and relationship to places I’ve only dreamed of.” 

V.R. Berkeley, CA