This method of coaching is new to the therapy world. It addresses the key aspects of being human, love, sex and desire, in all its forms. Through talking about these very personal parts of your life and taking on interactive practices and exercises to embody your insights and learning, you’ll gain self-awareness and insights into who, why, and how you love.
Through coaching you’ll learn how to cultivate intimacy in your relationships and find the confidence to give and receive sexual pleasure. By finding a secure attachment to our lovers, we grant each other the freedom to explore our erotic minds, and fuel our desires.
Coaching is a personalized way to help you find fulfillment in your sex and intimacy with another, or with yourself. You’ll discover how to nurture connection as well as passion. By learning about and exploring your unique sexuality you’ll embrace it in a positive, healthy and integrated life.
To learn more about the many aspects of Sexual Empowerment and Relationship Coaching opt-in for my Sex and Intimacy Assessment Tool, to help you assess your own goals.
No, I’m not a sexual surrogate.
My sessions are online by zoom or phone with the exception of my two-day couple’s intensives, in which I teach and coach.
I do not engage in sexual activities with my clients under any circumstance.
Tantra is a complex and ancient Indian life practice. Neo-Tantra is a adaptation of Tantra that is most commonly taught in the West. I include Neo-Tantra and mindfulness practices such as embodiment exercises, breathwork, eye contact, pacing and ritual in my coaching. All of these are key aspects to a connected sexual experience, regardless of the terminology or practice in which they’re housed.
Yes, I teach Kink to clients. Kink is more than whips and pain. It’s a multi-dimensional world of activities that can inform our erotic experience.
I teach Kink to clients who want to understand how to heighten sexual polarity with their lovers, to communicate their desires clearly, and to step into different side of their erotic selves. By integrating what kink has to teach we expand and our erotic menus and deepen our experience. You can learn more about my teaching as well as my online course Erotic Power Play for Inquisitive Couples.
It’s helpful to understand the differences between sex coaching and sex therapy so you can find the method that works best for your specific needs.
See my article on Sex Coaching vs Sex Therapy.
My Zoom and phone sessions are one hour, with the exception of my two day-long couple’s retreat.
Depending on your desires and goals, I suggest 3 session packages for individuals and 6 session packages for couples. After which time we’ll look at where we are, and consider your path forward in integrating your new perspectives, or moving onto more advanced learning together.
After your initial package of sessions you’ll find yourself in a different mindset of clarity and self-awareness. You’ll have learned skill sets and tools that are needed to have the intimate and sexual life you desire, whatever that looks like for you. You’re unique, and your sexuality is uniquely yours.
Trust and connection play an important part in our work together. Because of sexual repression and shaming in our society it takes people time to learn about themselves and unravel the deep seated patterns that hold them back in life and love. Give yourself the time and space for real and lasting transformations to take hold.
That depends on your unique needs, desires and goals. In each session we will spend time talking about just those things; your needs, desires and goals. Each week we’ll talk about what’s happening now and if applicable how it relates to your past sexual and intimate experiences.
You’ll gain insight into how best to incorporate what you are learning through weekly practices and exercises at home. You’ll keep a journal for your insights and questions as they arise. Our sessions will include embodiment and mindfulness practices to support your sensual/sexual experience.
Depending on your needs, I may offer hypnotherapy as a modality to help change unhealthy beliefs, disempower negative memories or patterns of behavior.
I live and work in the San Francisco Bay Area (Mill Valley)
Yes, I see clients exclusively online now. After many years of meeting clients in person I find I can reach more people at greater distances who want to work with me. I see clients from every State in U.S. as well as Canada, Mexico and countries abroad.
The exception to online work is when I see couples for a private two-day intensive retreat in person.
Yes, I want my work to reach those who need it. If you’re having financial concerns, let’s talk about how we might be able to make it work for you.
Yes, I have a 24-hour cancellation fee.
Yes, I’m happy to work with therapists who see my work as a complimentary modality to their own form of therapy.
Sexual empowerment coaching is a powerfully effective and direct method to address issues around sexuality, intimacy and relationships, parts of life that play such a large role in a client’s life and happiness.